The conversation you keep not having. First week free, no card. Start talking

Say it here first.

The thing you haven’t found a way to say to them goes to your guide, and stops there. Not summarised, not hinted at, never shown to your partner.

Start tonight, on your own. They don’t have to be ready.

Start talking

Your first week is free, and it starts with your first message, not the day you sign up.

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What your guide is, and what it does with what you write

The honest version: what it is built on, what it remembers, what it refuses to do, and where your words go.

It works from a method, not from vibes
The guide is instructed with the Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy: naming cycles, looking under the words, one question at a time. Nothing was trained on your data; the method lives in how it is instructed.
It is one presence, not a session
The same guide every day for both of you. It keeps a rolling private note about your relationship so it can pick up where you left off, and that note is never shown to anyone.
It will not break a seal
Ask it what your partner wrote before they have answered and it declines. Warmly, but it declines. That rule is enforced in the software, not left to the model’s discretion.
It does not take sides
It will not agree that your partner is the problem, and it will not problem-solve about someone who is not there.
When it cannot help
On any signal of violence, abuse or self-harm it stops the normal flow, speaks only to that person, and points them to real help.

Is my relationship being used to train an AI?

No. What you write is sent to the model to generate your guide’s reply. It is not used to train anything, and it is never shown to another couple.

The next quiet evening is coming.

You need somewhere to say the true thing tonight, and someone on the other end who knows the story.

Start talking

No card to start · your partner doesn’t have to be ready